Autism: Surviving and Thriving

Fourteen years ago my youngest 3 boys were diagnosed with autism within a 9 month span. Devastation and grieving followed. Doctors gave me little or no hope, but they didn't know me very well. I refused to believe that my boys were doomed.

My boys are now young men, adults with autism. They are thriving, but every day presents its turmoil and challenges.

My family: husband Mike, sons Ryan 23 yr, Nicholas 21 yr, and Cameron 18 yr. (Ryan and Nick have autism; Cam has recovered from autism.) Our oldest sons, Michael 34 yr and Stuart 25 yr, moved out of the house. Ryan has also moved out, and is still working towards complete independence.

Saturday, March 11, 2017

Accidents Happen

A few weeks ago, Ryan was in a car accident.  Our beloved, golden Echo was a great little car, but it was no match to a truck.  No one was hurt, but the car was totaled.

Ryan has had his driving license for almost three years with no ticket or accident.  Some people expressed concerned about a young, autistic adult driving.  According to Safety Insurance Company's website, "Nationwide, 43% of first-year drivers and 37% of second-year drivers are involved in car crashes."  Ryan beat those statistics.  Even after the accident, I'm glad we encouraged Ryan to learn how to drive.

Of course, Ryan was shaken and now has a new respect regarding his vulnerability and driving. It's scary out on the road, from his perspective and mine.  He has learned many life-lessons.  Sometimes, experience is the best teacher.