Autism: Surviving and Thriving

Fourteen years ago my youngest 3 boys were diagnosed with autism within a 9 month span. Devastation and grieving followed. Doctors gave me little or no hope, but they didn't know me very well. I refused to believe that my boys were doomed.

My boys are now young men, adults with autism. They are thriving, but every day presents its turmoil and challenges.

My family: husband Mike, sons Ryan 23 yr, Nicholas 21 yr, and Cameron 18 yr. (Ryan and Nick have autism; Cam has recovered from autism.) Our oldest sons, Michael 34 yr and Stuart 25 yr, moved out of the house. Ryan has also moved out, and is still working towards complete independence.

Tuesday, March 13, 2012

Can I Ask For Forgiveness: A Dot to Dot Conversation


"Mom, can I ask for forgiveness?" I didn't take that as a good sign.

Nicholas has been talking better in the last few weeks. However, the conversation is really fragmented. For example, here is how the last one started. It was like a verbal connect the dot game.

"Mom, I have an example."

"Of what?" I thought to myself.

"Mom, if I download something..."

Ummm.... where are we going with this...

"Mom, can I ask for forgiveness?"

I intentionally do not react, although my brain is firing off possibilities of what could have happened. Then I think back to the clues he gave me. An example. A download. Forgiveness.

The real problem kicks in now. Nick refuses to talk anymore.

I know anxiety precludes Nick from any decent form of conversation. So this is one where I'll have to be patient. It's like the TV mystery show that end with "to be continued" just at that precise moment of...

--to be continued!


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