Tennis Season Is Done and The Payoff

Nick and Ryan

Ryan and Nick finished their tennis season a few weeks ago.  They were happy to be done with daily practice.  I am thrilled they stuck with the sport through the entire season.

There were days when Ryan did not want to go.  "It's hot," or "I don't feel like it." Then there's the classic, "I have homework to do."  However, Ryan did continued to go.  On the other hand, Nick did not voice any complaints, but I bet the heat bothered him occasionally.  We strongly encouraged both of them throughout the season. Even the grandparents helped coach and practiced with them.  It is hard to say, "I'm tired," when a couple of 70+ years are out on the court!

We stressed the commitment and the membership of belonging to a team.  They just couldn't quit.  They understood, and finished they did!

They really enjoyed the sport.  As Ryan said, "I don't have to run all the time.  There's breaks."  Nick wants to join the team next year.  "By then I'll be really good cuz I'm going to practice lots."  Knowing Nick, he'll follow through.

From a mom's point of view, here is the payoff for my kids with autism:  they are receiving texts inviting them to go out and play tennis.  Kids with autism have such a difficult time talking, socializing, etc., and it's so easy for others to NOT invite them.  It saves everyone that uncomfortable, awkward situation of what to say or do.

Out on a tennis court, that situation is removed.  They play tennis.  They talk tennis.  It's a basis for a friendship to grow.  The sport builds camaraderie between teammates, as well as the competition between opponents.  The teammates and opponents can be one and the same too!

My boys are happy as well!  Which makes Momma happy!