Autism: Surviving and Thriving

Fourteen years ago my youngest 3 boys were diagnosed with autism within a 9 month span. Devastation and grieving followed. Doctors gave me little or no hope, but they didn't know me very well. I refused to believe that my boys were doomed.

My boys are now young men, adults with autism. They are thriving, but every day presents its turmoil and challenges.

My family: husband Mike, sons Ryan 23 yr, Nicholas 21 yr, and Cameron 18 yr. (Ryan and Nick have autism; Cam has recovered from autism.) Our oldest sons, Michael 34 yr and Stuart 25 yr, moved out of the house. Ryan has also moved out, and is still working towards complete independence.

Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Autism and Scholarships: Thrilling!

Yesterday Mike and I were absolutely thrilled to watch Ryan walk across the stage at his high school to receive a certificate.  This certificate recognized Ryan as a recipient of an academic scholarship.  There were moments when I doubted we'd get to this point.  Even applying for the scholarship had its moments.  I've described some of that in previous posts, so I won't belabor "the steps" here.

Ryan's response to the event really surprised me.

He was happy.  If you know Ryan, he doesn't smile often.

He tried to hide his smile when he walked down the steps of the stage, but for once, he couldn't hide his true emotion.  He smiled, well ok, he smirked.  He KNEW this was an accomplishment.  He LIKED being recognized.  Not comfortable. But liked.

New territory for Ryan.

After the ceremony, there was a reception.  News about that will come in the next entry!

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