Ryan First Driving Lesson: Thrilling and Terrifying

Ryan's first driving lesson with Gpa

For two years Ryan has not wanted to drive.  "I don't want the responsibility."

I couldn't understand Ryan's decision.  When I was 16, I couldn't wait to drive.  I was in line at 8 am to take my driver's test on my birthday.   Within that hour, I had my license in hand and ready for freedom and independence, or a semblance thereof!

Back to Ryan. For two years, Mike and I would push for him to take the test to get his permit; then we'd relent.  We weren't sure if it was lack of confidence, procrastination, or fear that kept Ryan from pursuing this opportunity.  Ryan wanted independence, but not enough to get his permit.

Well, Ryan's grandparents took on the task this summer of working with Ryan to get his permit.  At this point, he needed a gentle push, and then we'd see what happened.  For a month, Ryan studied the driving handbook and was tested.  The first try was unsuccessful.  The second try was.  Yea.

Ryan had his first driving lesson with Grandpa.  Ryan's response, "It was thrilling and terrifying at the same time."  Of course, he really couldn't suppress his smile.

I bet Grandpa would agree with Ryan's assessment of his first lesson!