Autism: Surviving and Thriving

Fourteen years ago my youngest 3 boys were diagnosed with autism within a 9 month span. Devastation and grieving followed. Doctors gave me little or no hope, but they didn't know me very well. I refused to believe that my boys were doomed.

My boys are now young men, adults with autism. They are thriving, but every day presents its turmoil and challenges.

My family: husband Mike, sons Ryan 23 yr, Nicholas 21 yr, and Cameron 18 yr. (Ryan and Nick have autism; Cam has recovered from autism.) Our oldest sons, Michael 34 yr and Stuart 25 yr, moved out of the house. Ryan has also moved out, and is still working towards complete independence.

Thursday, July 25, 2013

Thank You For Your Consideration

My Nick
So, the other day I asked the boys if they wanted to come with me to run a few errands.  I was going to end with dinner out, but I didn't tell them.  I was curious if they'd be willing to help me out.

The responses I received were mostly typical.  Ryan and Cameron chimed in unison, "NO!"

Nick, however, responded with a surprising response, "I thank you for your consideration, but no thank you."

My mouth dropped.  I was stunned.  That is the most Nick has put together without hesitation and rehearsal.  Not only that, but how courteous.  How polite.  I asked him if he had heard that somewhere.  He shrugged his shoulders.  I am not convinced, but I will let that be his secret!

I smiled.  AND I thanked him.

I ended up doing my errands alone, but everywhere I went, I had a smile!  My boys with autism CAN answer with more than a one word answer spontaneously.

Dinner out would wait for another day.

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