Autism: Surviving and Thriving

Fourteen years ago my youngest 3 boys were diagnosed with autism within a 9 month span. Devastation and grieving followed. Doctors gave me little or no hope, but they didn't know me very well. I refused to believe that my boys were doomed.

My boys are now young men, adults with autism. They are thriving, but every day presents its turmoil and challenges.

My family: husband Mike, sons Ryan 23 yr, Nicholas 21 yr, and Cameron 18 yr. (Ryan and Nick have autism; Cam has recovered from autism.) Our oldest sons, Michael 34 yr and Stuart 25 yr, moved out of the house. Ryan has also moved out, and is still working towards complete independence.

Sunday, March 16, 2014

A Picture Is Worth A 1000 Words

Ryan's showing the different colors of Yoda!  Ryan is creating these images through his photo shop class--a class we hope will lead to a trade.

Ryan took three college computer classes last semester.  He did well, earning As.  However, he decided that college is not for him.  Listening to lectures, taking tests, and finishing homework tremendously burdens Ryan.  Mike and I responded, "Ok, but you need to be working towards a job."  We have stressed to Ryan that government support is not an option.  What the government can give, the government can take away.  He must develop his own means to support himself.  We hope that he'll find a talent or skill that he loves and build a career from it.


Ryan agreed because he wants to be independent, but he didn't really have a plan of what to pursue.  Ryan has been in vocational/rehabilitation for two years, and that, so far, has produced nothing.  In fact, it has been a very frustrating process, but that is another story.


In my research I found a company that wanted to hire young adults on the autism spectrum.  The company's name is RMG Imaging Artists.  http://www.rmgia.com/  What a blessing!  The training is in photo shop. At first Ryan was not so willing to participate, but he quietly attended.

Over the last few months he found that he enjoys this class. Ryan has liked taking art classes in the past.  These classes are no exception.  Whether Ryan realizes it or not, he is very creative, which is not thought to be very typical of autism.  These classes demand focus and perfection while being creative.  It's a perfect mix for Ryan.

I'll focus more on the company in my next blog entry.




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