Ryan Turns 19

Ryan's favorite ice cream

Today is Ryan's birthday.  He's been counting down the days for over two weeks.  I think he is more excited about turning 19 than he was 18.  Wonder why?

Could be many reasons!

I think there is less stress in Ryan's life.  He graduated last May, so he's not in school full time.  He starts his college classes tomorrow.  He's only taking a few classes, and he's chosen them.  Unlike high school, where there were standards and requirements, Ryan is taking college slowly.  As of now, Ryan is enrolled in 3 college classes, but he's taking one class at a time.

Ryan is in control of his time.  He continues to write his book.  He's writing all day, every day.  He doesn't have to deal with a lot of people, so less communication is required of him.

Ryan has less commitments, but he's trying new things.  At his pace.  Ryan's learning to drive.  He is exploring new communication technology.  He now has a computer, so this technology can open a new world of learning for him.

Ryan's also accomplished a lot this year.  Besides graduating, Ryan spoke at a regional autism conference, played on a competitive team sport, and passed his drivers permit test. Those are a few highlights.

Of course, Mom and Dad still push Ryan in adult responsibilities as Ryan yearns for complete independence.  Ryan has grown and matured a lot this past year.  He seems to be getting comfortable in his own skin.  We are very proud of him.

Ryan doesn't know what he's going to pursue, career-wise.  Lots to think about there for any 19 year old, let alone a teenager with autism.  However, today, we're celebrating.

Like all of us, Ryan is a work in progress!  Happy Birthday...