Autism: Surviving and Thriving

Fourteen years ago my youngest 3 boys were diagnosed with autism within a 9 month span. Devastation and grieving followed. Doctors gave me little or no hope, but they didn't know me very well. I refused to believe that my boys were doomed.

My boys are now young men, adults with autism. They are thriving, but every day presents its turmoil and challenges.

My family: husband Mike, sons Ryan 23 yr, Nicholas 21 yr, and Cameron 18 yr. (Ryan and Nick have autism; Cam has recovered from autism.) Our oldest sons, Michael 34 yr and Stuart 25 yr, moved out of the house. Ryan has also moved out, and is still working towards complete independence.

Wednesday, October 23, 2013

Guiding A Young Adult With Autism



Six month ago, I was (somewhat) concerned about my 19 yr old, that once graduated, he'd have nothing to do. Well, 3 computer classes (and tutoring me in those), photofinishing classes, Japanese classes, writing his book... and now he wants to resume martial arts. AND yeah, this is a young adult with autism!!! I'm in AWE. (he's doing well thus far!)

I posted that “status” yesterday on Facebook.  It’s a very positive statement.  Sounds successful too.  And it is.  However, this “status” is a step along an unknown road.  What I didn’t write is how Ryan arrived at this point.  The steps were many.  Sometimes painful.  Never easy.

Tomorrow I’ll try to outline the reality of steps we traveled.  One must keep in mind that Ryan is not alone on this path, although now he is in much more control.  That is mixed blessing!  

As parents, we face this is a strange, new road:  a young adult with autism.

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